Top 5 Reasons Why Men Fall In Love
We get a lot of questions about relationships here at The Manism, and one of the most popular subjects we get asked about is about what makes men fall in love. In the hopes of providing the best answer, our editors have sorted through our mail, picked the 5 best questions and had our male writers provide the answers.
What makes men fall in love?
A cute girl who is light on life, knows how to have fun and stands out from the bunch. A man usually doesn’t realize he is in love right away because he is probably having too much fun to understand what is going on. Guys are attracted to girls who don’t take thing seriously, enjoy the same drinking games he does, and loves all the same sports. In fact his bros will get it before he does. The first sign that one of your buddies is in love is that he starts talking about how cool she is, or how different she might be from other girls. Another sign is that he starts to ditch hockey games with the guys for dinner and a movie with you. Most of our buddies come to terms with the fact he might be falling in love because his guy friends point it out to him.
Why men fall out of love?
This is directly related to the question above. If you are the real deal, your relationship will be rock solid for years to come. However, the romance is destined to burn out should you be that poser girl who pretends to have all his interest in common. If you’ve met a guy you think is cute, just be yourself. If he mentions a love of Sci-Fi, don’t pretend to care if you really don’t. Getting his attention might be fun at first, but eventually you won’t be able to keep up faking it, and he will start realizing you aren’t the person he actually had a great first few dates with. When that happens, expect him to take his space, more often than not, that space will become permanent.
When married men fall in love?
Married men will usually fall in love with someone else when things are not going well in their marriage. This is not out of the ordinary he might be going through a hard time and the next girl who makes him feel good will be a reminder of what a happy relationship should be. Be careful though, because he should clear things up for himself before he commits to anything or anyone else.
How do men fall in love?
We fall in love the same way you do. By spending time together, finding things we can enjoy as a couple, and learning to respect each other. I think the main difference is that we don’t over think it, ever! We hang around for as long as it’s fun, and if you are the one for us, it will be natural for us to hang around long enough to fall in love.
How men show love?
This is not easy to answer as we can’t place every man into one group. We would have to look at character types, and break it down into sub sections. But, in brief, remember that men in general have been oppressed by society when it comes to showing emotions. Growing up we are thought that real men don’t cry. Your man might be subtle when it comes to showing love, so ladies please appreciate the little things. He might of forgotten Valentine’s day, but he spent Saturday morning rotating the tires on your car. He did that because he wants you to be safe, and that is how he shows love.
Here are our final thoughts…
What Makes a Man Fall In Love With a Woman?
The answer is simple, you! There is no recipe for making someone fall in love with you, and there is no amount of “Trying” that can force it to happen. You need to invest the energy in other areas of a relationship, such as compromise, sharing, understanding, trust and respect. If you can exercise all of these attributes while not changing who you are as a person, love will happen. There is someone out there for you. If you compromise yourself by trying or bating for love, you are not affording the other person the ability to fall in love with the real you. Their getting to know the person you might be trying hard to be. In other words, it may not be your intention, but your pretending to be someone else, how long can you keep that up?
How Men Fall Out Of Love?
Men fall out of love when they begin to suspect that the person they fell in love with has changed. This is why trying to hard is extremely dangerous. How does one go about trying to make someone fall in love with them anyway? You’re probably going to try and cater to all of his likes, avoid his dislikes, be very careful to always say the right things and avoid confrontation when he has said or done something that bothers you. You are not doing each other any favors by being afraid to lose him. You need to be yourself, respect yourself enough to communicate your needs. A relationship requires two people, and both parties should balance out the compromise. Eventually it will become a very heavy burden for you, he will feel that you are not the person he fell in love with and leave. In turn, you will resent him because you see him as walking out on you after trying so hard to make this work.